Showing posts with label Covey. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Covey. Show all posts

Saturday, April 20, 2019

Peter and the Big Rocks Story (a Steve Orr Lectionary reflection)

They got the exact opposite of the correct answer.

Have you heard Stephen Covey’s “Big Rocks” story? It goes something like this: an expert on priorities makes a presentation to a “group of high-powered overachievers.” To illustrates his point, he slowly places large, fist-sized rocks into a “one-gallon, wide-mouthed mason jar.” When he can no longer fit anymore of the rocks in the jar, he asks, “Is the jar full?”

Their response is unanimous: everyone can see that no more of those rocks will fit. “Yes,” they call out.

The expert then lifts up a large pail and begins pouring pebbles into the jar, periodically shaking the jar so they will settle down into the spaces between the big rocks. when no more will fit, he again he asks, “Is the jar full?”

This time, they are less certain in their response. At this point, the expert brings forth another pail. From this, he pours sand into all the remaining spaces in the jar. He eventually comes to the point that no more sand will fit into the jar. Smiling, he again asks, “Is the jar full?”

Laughing now, the crowd roars back, “No!”

Still smiling, the expert then lifts up a large container of water and proceeds to pour it into the jar until no more will go in. It is now obvious to everyone that the jar is, finally, full. At this, the expert asks a different question, “What was the point of this illustration?”

One of the overachievers declares, “No matter how full your schedule, if you try really hard, you can always fit more into it!”

The expert replies, “No, that is not the point. The truth this illustration teaches us is: If you don’t put the big rocks in first, you’ll never get them in at all.”

In Covey’s story, the jar represents our life and all that goes into it. The big rocks represent what is most important in our lives —our faith, our education, our finances, time with our loved ones, teaching or mentoring others. They represent our main goals in life; those activities we care about the most; the critical ones; the life-changing ones. The pebbles, sand, and water represent all the other matters that fill our lives; the less important, the good, the bad, the anticipated, the unanticipated, the frivolous. Some, like the pebbles, are important; they’re just not anywhere near as important as the big rocks.

[You can read the full version of the Big Rocks story —from Covey’s wonderful book, First Things First— here: http://www.appleseeds.org/big-rocks_covey.htm]

With all that in mind, then, it should be no surprise Covey advocates for us to do all we can to identify the Big Rocks. We can’t prioritize them if we don’t know what they are. And so, as Easter is upon us, I point out two very big rocks in Peter’s speech from the book of Acts: “anyone” and “everyone.” They’re huge rocks, actually. And they are problematic. Instead of putting them in, first, as we should, we usually try to squeeze them in later ... without success.

We usually talk about the depth of the Easter story —its weight, timeliness, pain, sacrifice, prophetic fulfillment— spending little or no time talking about its breadth. Peter gets at the breadth.

In Acts 10:34-35, he says, “I truly understand that God shows no partiality, but in every nation anyone who fears him and does what is right is acceptable to him.” It’s definitely a Big Rock moment. Peter has just realized that God did not intend His blessings be restricted to the Jews; in fact, not restricted to any group. Any person, anywhere.

In Acts 10:43, Peter expands this already expansive realization to those who choose to follow Jesus: “All the prophets testify about him (Jesus) that everyone who believes in him receives forgiveness of sins through his name." Everyone who believes in Jesus. Everywhere ... No race. No skin color. No gender. No national origin. No culture. No political affiliation. No physical characteristic. No church affiliation.

The qualifiers are simple: fear God and do what is right; believe in Jesus. The unlimited nature of Peter’s words in this speech is astounding. Definitely worth pondering.

Anyone. Everyone.

Big rocks ... some of the biggest.

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PHOTO (be sure to watch the video!): http://www.franthony.com/blog/big-rocks-first

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READINGS FOR THE COMING WEEK
Easter Sunday (April 21, 2019)
Resurrection of the Lord
https://lectionary.library.vanderbilt.edu/texts.php?id=132

Acts 10:34-43
Isaiah 65:17-25
Psalm 118:1-2, 14-24
1 Corinthians 15:19-26
John 20:1-18
Luke 24:1-12

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Easter is upon us. Join us Friday morning as we spend time in the Bible, reading and discussing the Easter story. Along with some great food from Waco’s “Egg and I” restaurant, we’ll enjoy prayer, fellowship, and a surprising amount of laughter (“What’s with all the laughter, Steve? Didn’t you get the ‘serious’ memo?”).

Blessings,
Steve

Sunday, March 11, 2018

Training Wheels Revisited (a Steve Orr Lent reflection)

My first bike, a Sears 26-inch JC Higgins, was so much bigger than me. I had to bring it to the end of our walkway (which was a full twelve inches above the sidewalk) in order to get on it. But, once on it, I could not keep it upright. That didn't keep me from trying, but I fell ... a lot. In fact, every single time I pedaled a couple of turns, I started to tumble. This kept me close to home. That way I could always tumble unto our slightly raised lawn.

Into this problem stepped my Dad.

One Saturday, he called me to come out front to show me that he had installed training wheels on my bike. This was great! I still had to climb on at the end of the walkway, but this time the bike stayed upright. My Dad gave me only one rule: whenever I got off the bike, I had to use the kickstand. He said that would keep the training wheels from wearing out (he intended to use them for my sister at some point). For the first few minutes, I just sat there, luxuriating in the realization that I was not going to topple over.

And then I took off.

I rode all over the neighborhood on that bike. For days —and then weeks— I soared, my confidence placed firmly in those training wheels to keep me aloft. Oh, I still had some dismount problems due to that center bar, but on the whole it was the freedom I had dreamed of. This was more than happiness.

This was joy.

One morning, after having come back from a ride, I carefully climbed off the bike, hooked the kickstand down with my sneaker, and turned to find my Dad standing in my path.

He said, "How was the ride?"

"Great!" I replied.

"So, no problems riding without the training wheels?"

I whipped around and saw, to my horror, that there were no training wheels on my bike! I was almost overcome with the shock. I could have fallen!

"You took off the training wheels!" I accused.

"A week ago," he replied.

More shock! I had been riding without them for a week! But that was not all. Dad had never intended for me to rely on those training wheels. Like Stephen Covey wrote decades later, Dad "began with the end in mind." Every two or three days, he raised those training wheels ever so slightly. Finally, at some point, they never touched the ground while I rode the bike. And, because he had insisted I always use the kickstand, I never noticed that the bike could no longer stand on its own.

It is like this with God and us.

God began a work within each of us "with the end in mind." God knows we have to make the journey. God knows we will encounter things that, initially, we just cannot do without assistance. And God ensures we get that assistance. But the objective is that we outgrow the need for that help; that, in fact, we grow to the point where, not only do we not need help with that challenge, but we become so skilled at it, we become someone else's assistance.

So, don’t be surprised to find in Ephesians 2:10 that long ago God prepared good deeds for each of us to do; that God crafted positive actions specific to you, for you to do. Be encouraged: it means God thinks you're ready.

And be curious. Start looking around. Someone needs their training wheels ... and you’re up!


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A slightly different version of this reflection appeared during Lent 2012.

Photo (and an interesting story):
http://omahamagazine.com/articles/taking-off-the-training-wheels/
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READINGS FOR THE COMING WEEK
Fourth Sunday in Lent (March 11, 2018)
https://lectionary.library.vanderbilt.edu//

Numbers 21:4-9
Psalm 107:1-3, 17-22
Ephesians 2:1-10
John 3:14-21
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Join us Friday morning for the DaySpring Lectionary Breakfast. We gather at 8:00 for good food, prayer, fellowship, and a truly fine time in the scriptures. We still meet at the Waco “Egg and I” restaurant. We’re in the back.

Don’t expect some dry, dull study. While we delve into the scripture, we share our lives and our laughter.

Blessings,
Steve

Friday, March 16, 2012

Training Wheels


Training Wheels
(a brief Lectionary reflection by Steve Orr)

My first bike, a Sears 26-inch JC Higgins, was so much bigger than me, I had to bring it to the end of our walkway (which was a full twelve inches above the sidewalk) in order to get on it. But, once on it, I could not keep it upright. That didn't keep me from trying, but I fell ... a lot. In fact, every single time I pedaled a couple of turns, I started to tumble. This kept me close to home. That way I could always tumble unto our slightly raised lawn.

Into this problem stepped my Dad. One Saturday, he called me to come out front to show me that he had installed training wheels on my bike. This was great! I still had to climb on at the end of the walkway, but this time the bike stayed upright. My Dad gave me only one rule: whenever I got off the bike, I had to use the kickstand. He said that would keep the training wheels from wearing out (he intended to use them for my sister at some point). For the first few minutes, I just sat there, luxuriating in the realization that I was not going to topple over.

And then I took off.

I rode all over the neighborhood on that bike, for days and then weeks, I soared, my confidence placed firmly in those training wheels to keep me aloft. Oh, I still had some dismount problems due to that center bar, but on the whole it was the freedom I had dreamed of. This was more than happiness. This was joy.

One morning, after having come back from a ride, I carefully climbed off the bike, hooked the kickstand down with my sneaker, and turned to find my Dad standing in my path.

He said, "How was the ride?"

"Great!" I replied.

"So," he asked, "no problems riding without the training wheels?"

I whipped around and saw, to my horror, that there were no training wheels on my bike! I was almost overcome with the shock of realizing that I could have fallen.

"You took off the training wheels!" I accused.

"A week ago," he replied.

I had been riding without them for a week! But that was not all. Dad had never intended for me to rely on those training wheels. Like Stephen Covey was to articulate decades later, Dad "began with the end in mind." Every two or three days, he raised those training wheels ever so slightly, until, at some point, they never touched the ground while I rode the bike. And, because he had insisted I always use the kickstand, I never noticed that the bike could no longer stand on its own.

It is like this with God and us. God began a work within each of us "with the end in mind." God knows we have to make the journey, that we will encounter things we, initially, just cannot do without assistance; and we get that assistance. But the objective is that we outgrow that help; that, in fact, we grow to the point where, not only do we not need help with that challenge, but we become so skilled at it, we become someone else's assistance.

So, when you read Ephesians 2:10 and find that, long ago, God prepared good deeds for each of us to do; that God crafted a group of positive actions specific to you, for you to do; don't be surprised. Be encouraged: God thinks you're ready.

And be curious. Start looking for them. Someone needs their training wheels.

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READINGS FOR THE COMING WEEK
Fourth Sunday in Lent (March 18, 2012)
Numbers 21:4-9
Psalm 107:1-3, 17-22
Ephesians 2:1-10
John 3:14-21

http://lectionary.library.vanderbilt.edu/

If you are in Waco Friday morning, join us for breakfast at 8:00 at Cafe Cappuccino (downtown on 6th, near the Courthouse). Good food and good discussion. I am so excited to be going!

Enjoy the week!

Steve